Tuesday, May 12, 2009
Seems the 3 or so guys who read this site (tell your friends, boys) prefer to email me than leave comments. If you have a Blogger account and want to leave a comment without it pointing back to your Blogger account, just use the Anonymous feature or Name/URL. It works fine and you stay anonymous.
One regular reader emailed me yesterday regarding my post about keeping a woman's sex drive high by doing unsexy things. His email said:
I love my wife and want to have more sex, but she's gained weight. How do I keep thinking about her rather than other women?
Honesty is good and this is a problem a lot of men face, married or not. As I've said in previous posts, the first thing to work hard to do is get rid of the porn. Porn is a great part of my life, but I'm single. When you don't have a woman's body to release into (or on, in my case), porn is a very distant second place. If you do have a woman in your life, porn should hit the road. Increasing your own sexual desire can have an effect on her, if you focus that desire properly.
I burned off those 30# in about 12 weeks, and I added enough definition that she noticed. She was touching me more, and whenever I was working with my shirt off, she noticed definition in my back. Many women will find a man's back muscles more attractive than arm, pec, or ab muscles. It's an odd internal glitch in our ladies.